With
banners in White Plaza, “rape free zone” tape around
the row houses, and blue ribbons about the post office, it is that
time of year again; no not Valentine’s Day, but Vagina Monologues
Day. The purported point of all of this is to “Stop Violence
Against Women.”
But how does a production that
calls for audience participation in screaming “c-nt”
stop violence against women? How does the story of the “Little
Coochi Sorcher That Could” in which pedophilic molestation
against a previously assaulted 13 year old girl is morally equivocated
as a sexual growing experience do anything to reduce violence against
women? The answer is that it does not.
If “V-Week” was really
about the motto “Until the Violence Stops,” then there
would be discussions of tougher criminal penalties for rapists,
how to better reform the justice system to deal with sexual assault,
and if Megan’s Law went far enough. Instead, the week is marked
by exaggerated statistics meant to shock and expose a problem, without
ever presenting a solution. Even if one assumes the Vagina Monologues
production can really stop sexual assault against women, why isn’t
it marketed towards the audience who commits these crimes, men?
While the Vagina Monologues fail
to properly address issues of rape, they succeed in creating an
amazingly potent anti-male presentation. With males depicted as
Serbian gang rapists and child molesters followed by lines such
as “I’ll never need to rely on a man” the anti-male
slant is undeniable. But certainly not all males are rapists. Moreover,
most women do need men, just as most men do need women. I fear that
the collective sense of women’s self-empowerment is coming
at the cost of a greater resentment and distrust for men in general.
Rape is unquestionably a terrible
crime. But if we are to properly address it, it will take the concentration
of people of both genders. Demonizing males everywhere for the crimes
of a handful only stifles the cooperation that must exist between
men and women if we hope to stop these outrageous crimes. The Vagina
Monologues only accentuates divisions on an issue where gender unity
is required.
Let the Stanford community be
honest with itself. This was never about stopping violence. This
is a week of hoorah female self-empowerment in which the taboos
surrounding genitalia are blown to bits by an outrageous production
that takes it way over the top.
Perhaps there is nothing wrong
with this. Perhaps the women of Stanford deserve a week to bask
in a collective spirit of female solidarity. But rape is a very
serious issue. It is a dire problem today’s society faces
and it will not be dispelled by female “self-empowerment.”
All the “rape free zone” tape in the world won’t
stop crime, screaming “c-nt” doesn’t scare a rapist,
and being in touch with one’s vagina doesn’t intimidate
a sexual predator.
If the Stanford Community is truly
interested in preventing rape, surely we can find a better route
than the Vagina Monologues.
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